{"id":306,"date":"2008-07-25T11:54:25","date_gmt":"2008-07-25T10:54:25","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/newmediatrends.fdim.dk\/2008\/07\/what-kind-of-friend-are-you-wayan.html"},"modified":"2013-02-25T21:06:52","modified_gmt":"2013-02-25T20:06:52","slug":"what-kind-of-friend-are-you-wayan","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/jon-lund.com\/main\/what-kind-of-friend-are-you-wayan\/","title":{"rendered":"What kind of &#8220;friend&#8221; are you &#8211; Wayan?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Here&#8217;s an idea for all you social media-network sites out there, freshly imported from Bali.<\/p>\n<p>On Bali everybody have the same 4 names. The firstborn &#8211; boy or girl &#8211; is Wayan, number two Made, number three Nyoman, and four Ketut. Number 5 is called Wayan again and so it starts over (See Wikipedia\u00a0for <a href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Balinese_name\" title=\"Wikipedias take on Balinese names\">more\u00a0on the subject<\/a>).<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/newmediatrends.fdim.dk\/wp-content\/uploads\/osvald-steering-balinese-ship.JPG\" alt=\"Osvald steering Balinese ship\" \/><br \/>\n<em>Captain Wayan,\u00a0Made,\u00a0Nyoman or Ketut (make your choise!) having let my youngst son Osvald take the steering of his traditional Balisnese boat during an early morning Dolphin-scout tour some two weeks ago, outside Lovina, Bali.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>From one point of view this naming-practice is overwhelmingly restricted, and surely does not allow for much expression of individuality. From a social point of view, however, they tell you a lot: Meeting a &#8220;Wayan&#8221; tells you he&#8217;s either the firstborn, a prestigious position &#8211; or number 5, which in turns indicates he&#8217;s from a rather big family.<\/p>\n<p>This is a smart way to convey social functions! Compare to eg. the somewhat pauvre labelling at social networking sites. Here everybody&#8217;s a &#8220;friend&#8221;. Not much distinction between degrees of &#8220;friendship&#8221;, &#8220;familyship&#8221; or merely &#8220;knowingship&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>Could this naming practice be adopted by social networking sites? Imagine, eg, if my &#8220;friends&#8221; at a professional social network like linkedin were all &#8220;Steves&#8221; (that is bosses or former bosses), &#8220;Susans&#8221; (present or former collegeaues) or &#8220;Bobs&#8221; (employees).<\/p>\n<p>Checking out a profiles could then read you: Mutual Steves, Mutual Bobs &#8211; or &#8220;you got 3 Susans in common &#8211; click to view all shared Susans&#8221;. At a horse-riding social networking site &#8220;chevalliers&#8221; would be the ones who&#8217;ve owned a horse for at least five years, at a party-photosharing-website &#8220;Piclers&#8221; could be users who attended the same discoteqeus as you self, and so on and so on&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>PS. On second thought some of these ideas might allready have been adopted. I had a kind of a kick from being &#8220;friend&#8221; with &#8220;Anders&#8221; during af after the national elections last year (&#8220;Anders&#8221; with the sirname Fogh-Rasmussen is the primeminister of Denmark). That was somewhat cool, I thought (I also saw to it to befriend the leader of the opposition, &#8220;Helle&#8221; as well as &#8220;Margrethe&#8221; and &#8220;Ellen&#8221;, and\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/newmediatrends.fdim.dk\/2007\/11\/my-week-at-facebook-with-anders-helle-ellen-and-margrethe.html\" title=\"An old blogpost of mine: \">blogged about it here<\/a>). But then after a few months my friend Anders wrote me an email, telling me he had changed my social standing from &#8220;friend&#8221; to &#8220;follower&#8221;, which in turn led me to abandon our relationsship \ud83d\ude41<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Here&#8217;s an idea for all you social media-network sites out there, freshly imported from Bali. On Bali everybody have the same 4 names. The firstborn &#8211; boy or girl &#8211; is Wayan, number two Made, number three Nyoman, and four Ketut. Number 5 is called Wayan again and so it starts over (See Wikipedia\u00a0for more\u00a0on&hellip;&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/jon-lund.com\/main\/what-kind-of-friend-are-you-wayan\/\" class=\"\" rel=\"bookmark\">L\u00e6s mere &raquo;<span class=\"screen-reader-text\">What kind of &#8220;friend&#8221; are you &#8211; Wayan?<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4,9],"tags":[19,53,56,65,69,81,84,93],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/jon-lund.com\/main\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/306"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/jon-lund.com\/main\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/jon-lund.com\/main\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jon-lund.com\/main\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jon-lund.com\/main\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=306"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/jon-lund.com\/main\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/306\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3676,"href":"https:\/\/jon-lund.com\/main\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/306\/revisions\/3676"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/jon-lund.com\/main\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=306"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jon-lund.com\/main\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=306"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jon-lund.com\/main\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=306"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}